為什麼世上有這麼蠢的女人﹖被拍的女星蠢在哪一點﹖蠢在被拍﹖蠢在被一個出名的花花公子來拍﹖明知對方屬於「趙完鬆」(吃完就走)那類生物﹐還要送羊入虎口﹐為什麼﹖靚仔原來真的天下無敵﹐如果換一個趙傳﹐或者葛優﹐有沒有這麼多美女送上門﹖誰說男人才揀外在美的女人﹖喜歡內在美男人的女人大概是沒有條件愛外在美男人的女人。
你向身旁的男女朋友做一個調查﹕如果你是當事女主角﹐要在一張三點纖毫畢露和代男口交的照片之間選一張最不想見報的﹐你會選擇哪一張呢﹖你會發現男女的確有別﹗
殺人有誤殺罪﹐為什麼就沒有鹹相「誤放罪」﹖很多正義的人都指責放相有罪﹐哪麼陳冠希「誤放」無罪﹖
為什麼有人會蠢到送這麼一部電腦給人修理﹖陳冠希外表醒目﹐為什麼這麼蠢﹖蠢男也可以人見人愛車見車載﹐世界還有天理嗎﹖
如果出問題的電腦去年已被非法偷資料﹐為什麼到了今天才放出照片﹖放相片的人好像有點策略﹐先上載兩張﹐當有關人士紛紛出來辯駁是假相﹐這時才放出連環圖。當警方和一些傳媒都說已非常接近放相源頭的時候﹐就再放200張新相﹐好像每一步都是跟傳媒﹑有關藝人的公司和警方對著幹。
誰之過
這件事反映了一個現象﹐那就是明星和他們的經理人的說話極不可信。當年人人都知道男星女星拍拖﹐但當事人都否認。現在看來﹐連床都上了。明星這樣自倒長城﹐又怎可以怪狗仔隊各顯神通刮新聞﹖
女星的經理人更面目可憎﹐一開始就否認是真相片﹐簡直當天下人是白痴。用侮辱天下人智慧的方法來為己辯護﹐是市場推廣中最低招數﹐但用者不知凡幾﹐證明不稱職的人各行都不乏。
大家都藉著這件事重組自己的價值觀﹐例如大家在爭論﹐在男星﹑女星和放相人之間﹐哪一個最應怪罪﹖大家都說女星咎由自取﹐哪麼拍照的男星有沒有責任﹖放相的人是否真的比男星的道德罪責更重﹖
這件事也可以成為邏輯思維訓練的藍本。例如﹐以下一些想法﹐你有沒有想到呢﹖其實兩情相悅﹐兩人關在房中便擁有所有自由﹐你不能說男星錯﹐只能說女星或女星男星都思慮不周。男星一定有錯﹐但錯不在拍照﹐而錯在不懂好好保管戰利品。
又例如﹐不少人都說女星不值得可憐﹐說到好像她們要承受所有後果和責任。這其實是邏輯錯步。說到底﹐女星即使蠢到不值得可憐﹐但她們是最大的受害者。如果要講責任﹐法律上肯定是放相的人﹐女星和男星都無罪。但道德上﹐男星要負上最大責任﹐因為他沒有好好將相片保存﹐這方面他最大罪。
撰文:童松興
原載於《星島周刊》2月9日
11 二月 2008, 09:42
Calm down, calm down. I can feel how angry and frustrated you were when you wrote this article. I absolutely agree your points.
Women, especially the beautiful one, are stupid. They believe since they were born to be beautiful, and so, they didn’t practice thinking. So, by teen ages, if someone told them they are beautiful and can make them became a movie star, they will do anything, as they have not “practice thinking” for whole life.
Tell you a true example, when I was in high school in Hong Kong, 3 of us, the tallest girls in our ages, after school, these guys hurt us just outside the school entrance. Told us he was from an advertising company, we are beautiful, and can line us up as models or even movie stars. They gave us their business cards. Fortunately, I know I am tall, but not beautiful as the other 2 classmates. We contacted the guy, he line up the first job for us and met at a factory in Kowloon somewhere. That was the first time I when to Kowloon side. When we were there, we found out that was factory produce underwear. We decided to leave. I think that was the end of the story.
Less than a year, I saw one of us was in a TV advertising, she was beautiful and tall, we all think she will became a movie star one day. End up, she quilt school at Form 4, her parents sent her to Canada to study. After that, how bright was her future, you can imagine.
The other one was even worst. She disappeared in Form 5, years after years, no one know anything on her. End up, we know she was pregnant and left Hong Kong. Only 17 years old. She has a daughter but no husband, live with parents.
Innocent people are everywhere. I think family education is the most important thing. Teach our kids money and beauty is nothing. Educate them how to value our knowledges, experiences and self-confident.
Hey, talking too much, but lot to say………………
12 二月 2008, 10:37
美女人海浮沉﹐我聽猶憐。美女美男是上天恩寵。聽你這麼說﹐唏噓呀。
14 二月 2008, 21:05 怎麼說呢???